A popular expression states that
the best leaders are the best followers. Therefore if you want to become a good
speaker you must be, first, a good listener. So what makes a good listener?
Many students hear their teacher
giving a lecture but are not listening to a single word their teacher is
saying. Notice the big difference between the word “hearing” and “listening.”
Hearing is a physiological process wherein the ear receives sounds while
listening is a conscious mental act of interpreting the sounds for a meaning or
message. Hearing something means you are being passive in the communication
process, but when you listen you take an active role, enabling you to give
accurate feedback. Now the same can be said about seeing and watching. You can
see that the TV is on, but you are not watching the TV show; or you can see
that there is a person on stage, but you are not watching the speaker. The
point here is that in order for you to assess a speaker effectively, you need
to listen, simple as that. And when you know what worked and what didn’t, you
can apply what you’ve learned when it’s your time to speak.
The Different Components of a Speech
What to Say?
The first major component of your
speech is your content; this refers to what you are mentioning in your speech.
Your content will depend on your purpose. If your purpose is to inform, then
the contents of your speech must be truthful, valid, and informative. If your
purpose is to persuade, then the contents of your speech must ethical, logical,
and thought provoking.
The content is the soul of your
speech. This means that no amount of theatrics or presentation skills will make
a poorly-written speech into a great one. Hence, it is essential to give
yourself the time to go through the proper writing process so that you can make
a coherent, concise, and complete speech.
How to Say It?
Delivery is the second component
of your speech. It encompasses the methods, techniques, and objects you employ
as speaker to help you effectively convey the contents of your speech to your
audience. If the content of the speech is the soul, the delivery is the body.
The delivery is what the audience sees and hears. Therefore, an audience will
not be able to appreciate a speech, though well-written, when badly delivered.
What Is a Good Delivery?
The best public speakers strike a
fine balance between being methodical and being natural. Planning every move or
gesture will make you look robotic and insincere to the audience. On the other
hand, hardly practicing any of your moves or gestures will make you look
unprepared.
Unfortunately, speech delivery is
not a science; it is more of an art. There is no set of rules that will work
for everyone and in every situation. What you will be learning about delivery
will not be enough to make you an effective public speaker. In other words, no
amount of studying and memorizing the techniques from public speaking books or courses can substitute for experience.
Delivery is composed of three
parts: speaking method, the speaker’s voice, and nonverbal communication.
The Different Methods Delivery
Reading a Manuscript
Video 1: Tips on effective manuscript reading (courtesy of DrexelSpeechClass, Youtube)
This method means that you will
be bringing a complete copy of your speech for you to read to your audience.
Although some would say that this method is the easiest since memorization is
not required, it does have some drawbacks. Speakers who use this method may end
up misreading words, pausing in the wrong parts, speaking in a monotone,
forgetting to glance at the audience, or getting lost in text. In short, some
speakers who read a manuscript end up just merely reading to their audience and
not speaking to them. In other words, using this method would still require for you to practice delivering the speech.
Reciting from Memory
This method is no longer popular
especially with students as it has proven to be their public speaking waterloo.
How many times have you seen a student orating a melodramatic piece about
asking for a piece of bread only to stop midway because he or she could no
longer recall the next line?
Many speakers do not consider
this method practicable. Reciting from memory will likely impress your
audience, but if you have not memorized your speech well enough, you will end
up using all your concentration on trying to remember the words. Another
disadvantage is that the method makes it hard for you to ad lib. The term,
short for ad libitum (at one’s pleasure), is used commonly in drama and it
means to improvise. In public speaking, ad libbing gives the speaker the
freedom to add something or to make some changes to his or her speech during delivery. To ad lib does not necessarily mean extra content. Simple things like pausing longer or even skipping some sections of your speech are good examples of ad lib.
Video 2: Tips for memorizing a speech (courtesy of SmartMemoryPower, Youtube)
Speaking Impromptu
This method means delivering a
speech with little or no preparation. If you consider impromptu speaking a
nightmare then you are not alone. Many avoid such a situation;
sadly, impromptu speaking is a part of modern life you cannot avoid.
When faced with the challenge of
speaking impromptu, the first thing you need to do is to manage your nerves.
Remind yourself that the audience is your friend. They know how difficult it is
to speak in impromptu, and no one will expect a perfectly-organized and
delivered speech. Once you start to speak, maintain eye contact with your
audience and concentrate on controlling the pace of your speaking. Help your audience (and yourself) to keep
track of your ideas by using expressions such as “my first point is . . .second
. . . in conclusion . . .” Stating your
points clearly and concisely helps you to come across as organized and
confident.
Video 3: Tips for effective impromptu speaking (courtesy of Toastmasters, Youtube)
Speaking Extemporaneously
In this method, the speaker uses
a set of notes or an outline to serve as a guide for the speech. Speaking
extemporaneously is the preferred method by many public speakers because the
speaker is not required to memorize the speech at the same time he or she is
not dependent on a copy of the speech. The set of notes or outline helps the
speaker to remember what next to say or organizes his or her thoughts.
Spontaneity is another advantage of the method as the exact wording of the
speech is chosen at the moment of delivery.
Video 4: Tips for extemporaneous speaking (courtesy of dalemercer, Youtube)
What is the Speaker’s Voice?
Video 5: Homeless man with golden
voice gets another second chance (courtesy of Associated Press, YouTube)
Alas not everybody is gifted with
a golden voice. Nonetheless you can learn to control your voice so that it does
not become a distraction, preventing your audience from getting your message.
The following are the aspects of voice you should learn to control:
1. Volume – the loudness or softness of the
speaker’s voice.
2. Pitch – highness or
lowness of the speaker’s voice.
3. Rate – refers to the
speed at which a person speaks.
4. Pauses – a
momentary break in the vocal delivery of a speech.
5. Vocal Variety – is the changes in
a speaker’s rate, pitch, and volume.
6. Pronunciation – is the
accepted standard of sound and rhythm for words in a given language.
7. Articulation – is the physical
production of particular speech sounds.
Video 6: Different types of tone (Empowernet International, Youtube)
What is Nonverbal Communication?
Nonverbal communication is
communication that occurs as a result of appearance, posture, gesture, eye
contact, facial expressions, and other non-linguistic factors. Here are the
major aspects of nonverbal communication that will affect the outcome of your
speeches.
Personal Appearance
“Don’t judge a book by its
cover;” however, you can definitely judge a speaker by his or her appearance.
Personal appearance does not refer to the facial features or physical built of
the speaker. Not everyone is as genetically gifted as Brazilian supermodels do.
Personal appearance refers to the speaker’s clothes and grooming. Although a
strong delivery can easily overcome poor fashion choices or a lack of grooming,
dressing and grooming appropriately to the occasion gives a favorable first
impression, making the audience more receptive to your message.
Bodily Action
The best speakers learn to
control mannerisms that can be distracting for the audience. This is the reason
why you should always practice first in front of a video camera or in front of
your friends. With the video recording or with your friends' feedback, you can
identify movements (or the lack of) you unconsciously do that are
potentially distracting. You should also be aware of the pace of your
movements; too slow can make your speech boring, and too fast can create an
impression that you are nervous.
Gestures
Video 7: Hand gestures that can be insulting in other countries (courtesy of PimsleurApproach, Youtube)
Gestures are motions of a
speaker’s hands or arms during a speech. The primary rule for gestures is the
same for bodily action; it should not be distracting. They should appear
natural and spontaneous, help clarify or reinforce your ideas, and be suited to
the audience and occasion.
Eye Contact
Eye
contact is the direct visual contact with the eyes of another person. Looking
at your audience is an easy way of establishing credibility. Having eye contact
with your listeners sends a message that you are sincere. However eye contact is not enough; how you look at them is also
important. A blank, fierce, or bewildered stare will not translate well with
the audience. Also it is important not to gaze at only one section of the
audience, as you will be alienating the rest.
Video 7: Tips on eye contact (courtesy of Emporwernet, Youtube)